u/Aviation365_

I post very rarely but they've ragebaited me enough to do so.

I'm just ranting but if you have any advice I will of course gladly accept it.

About 8 months ago I've decided to find myself a good girlfriend and it's been a disaster so far.

I locked in and started hanging out one-on-one with a classmate and it was going great. About a month in I tell her that I'd like for us to be together in near future, the next day she brigs ME (only ME) self-baked cinnamon buns to school. A month later she tells me some bs that "she's never liked anyone except celebrities". I asked her to explain what was really going on, she kept playing dumb so I cut her off. Now treat her like air.

I said screw it and recently started talking with another one. Decided to finally meet up outside of school. Earlier I've built an inside joke and so I text her:

>Me: prepare your bike, we're going cycling
Her: All pumped up and ready!
Her: I see in my calendar, that weekends look empty
Me: looks like we're all set!
Her: When exactly?
Me: the 9th of May?
Her: Great! Is anyone else coming

"Is anyone else coming" literally number one friend zone signal BUT (I know how it sounds...) we were discussing this in a group at school, so I gave her benefit of the doubt

>Me: bring whomever you like
Me: or don't
Her: But we're going to [destination]?
Me: sure thing

After that she made some jokes and I haven't talked to/texted her, since she was out of city for a week. I assumed that because she's changed the topic she's not bringing anyone. And so I slept peacefully.

This morning I've been talking with some friends. Sudendly she came up, stood by my side and is like "Well something came up tomorrow, so we're not going anywhere but I've talked with [mutual friend] and he's up for going together another time!". I stood there trying not look like an idiot and just noded without looking at her.

I literally can't with this girl. Is it so hard to take a hint??? Or screw it - give one like at this point just say "Okay, so let's bring..." during the texting PLUS WHY WOULD I TEXT ONLY HER IF I WERE TO ORGANISE A GROUP TRIP AHHHHHHH

whatever.

I mean our mutual friend is smart, tall, handsome and kinda cute (I mean she is as well but he's an 11/10!!!), so whatever a love triangle works for me as well. It's 2026 after all, we can't be too conservative... BUT HE'S ALREADY TAKEN (AND IS STRAIGHT AS AN ARROW😭) SO WHY WOULD YOU EVEN INVITE HIS AHH OUT OF EVERYONE IN THIS EDUCATIONAL FACILITY AAAAGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH

relax.

Now warning before the last part: keep in mind I had to keep my mouth shut the entire day and just had to vent. Don't try this at home!

We walked out of school together. Just me and her. She was going on about her week and then asks me about mine. I told her about the allergy me and my friends developed after going to check out [destination] in advance (always do that!) and ranted on how bad is was.

To complete my rant I mention how she started inviting people. She was like "well we discussed that in a group earlier and maybe something our [another (female) mutual friend] wanted to come..." I cut her off and told her "WHY WOULD I BE TEXTING ONLY YOU THEN!? I WANT TO TAKE YOU OUT NOT THE ENTIRE CLASS". She made a weird expression (well... valid), so I gave her some bs explanation that too many people increases drag and we won't be aerodynamic and all (we both larp as physics nerds). She looked me in the eyes, smiled and nodded.

Then we came to a conclusion, that the weather is bad anyways, so we should get city bikes instead and if it rains or sth we'll just ditch them and go inside. I told her, that I'd take her to [place] and [place2] and we'll do [activity] and [activity2] and it'll be fun. She told me that she likes the idea but as she said she is busy Saturday (some driver's licence bs, I believe her) and so I told her that we'll set the exact date and time later. We shook hands, I got on the train and left.

AND NOW BEFORE ANY OF YOU SMART PEOPLE SAY "well this could've been resolved with some communication" I SHOW A MIDDLE FINGER TO YOU. IT NEVER WORKS!!!

At home I've realised, that she'd texted me something, so I sent a bs meme back. An hour later, out of nowhere she texted again:

>"Hey, I really apologise but I can't meet up this weekedn. I'm sorry" (yes the typo is there on purpose)

So I got confused because I thought, that we've already established that in person. I've decided (wrongly) to figure out what she means (and hopefully pivot to a new date)

>"haven't you already told me that at school?"

AND GUESS WHAT???

SHE LEFT ME ON DELIVERED. I'M DONE WITH THIS LIKE ARE WE DEADASS. ARE WE FOR REAL?!

TS WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN BUT THOSE RANKED LOBBIES ARE COOKED NGL.

AAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH FAAAAAAHHHHH

anyways.

Have a pleasent rest of the day everyone, BECAUSE I WON'T!