I’m so so so frustrated.
My parent has a big event coming up and I was told about this graduation five days before and I’m expected to be there. No questions asked. A few things: You know about graduation months in advance. Why are you telling me five days before? I actually have an event that day that it will be the second time I’ve tried to go to it. I’m not canceling again. After I told her no I can’t go, her husband tries to call me an hour later. I didn’t pick up. He never calls me. I knew that call would be a shit show of guilt. I did tell her I would love to celebrate this graduation another day. It’s the audacity for me that I’m the bad guy for not going when a, you knew about these graduations MONTHS in advance. And b, I’m a 30 year old adult with a schedule and life. I can’t drop what I’m doing at the drop of a hat
I guess advice/ venting. I’m extremely low contact. Considering no contact with one parent.