u/AverageVodkaEnjoyer

So currently doing reconciliation with wife after I found messages on her phone of her flirting/sexting/calls with other men. She has therapy once every 2 weeks, and she tells me what was spoken about and if any progress was made. Today she had an appointment and when she told the therapist about the messages, the therapist told her it wasnt that bad because it wasnt physical. I was at a loss for words. She said she felt strange being told that by a therapist, and said she will probably ask for another, but im still reeling at the fact that a licensed therapist is saying things like that. What should I do/tell my wife?