This is a new situation for me and I'm curious other people's thoughts. Not new to polyamory but this has never come up before.
My partner had an overnight scheduled with her other partner last night. He was supposed to be home from a dinner with a friend at 7:30. My partner reached out to me at 8:30 worried because she had no communication from him at all. After we got off the phone she texted him with no response for another thirty minutes. He was fine. I have to other context for why he was so late, and for the lack of communication.
Why this is a conundrum. I personally feel like his behavior was very neglectful and disrespectful to my partner because he knew that she was there waiting for him. I also know that it definitely bothered her but feel like she will brush it off because she was just relieved he was okay.
If it was just a friend I would feel fine stating my full opinion of the situation, but because she is my partner I don't know if I should hold back my thoughts or not. It feels like it would across differently because of our relationship.
Thoughts and advice?