I (52F) recently started dating a 54 yo man. We have connected on so many levels, including PIV sex. It's been amazing for both of us.
Last night I had my period, so I offered a BJ. He went absolutely crazy. Definitely the most intense orgasm I have seen him have. Which was great and fun to know I could do that for him.
But now I'm feeling a bit inadequate for when we go back to PIV. I do my kegels, I try to even clamp down a bit, and he says he can feel when I orgasm. I do always incorporate mouth play, but not to completion.
I'm trying to equate it to G-spot vs clitoral orgasm, but I'm now wondering if PIV will be inadequate now. I mean, I could give a BJ every time, but we're not young and a second round takes some time and I want to enjoy myself as well.
I guess I'm just looking for a male perspective on this experience. TIA