I'm going through a bad cold because of the weather change and my parents are concerned and that's normal but also I do not want to answer or come see them because I don't want to be forced to listen to unsolicited advice and I don't want to be blamed because I "ate junk food"
Makes me think when it's my time to have a baby I don't think I would want to tell them until a lot later. I don't think it's going to be good for me to endure that stress if I have a baby.
I know not every set of parents and children agree across all cultures but I feel growing up I had to support myself emotionally and constantly protect my peace from them. I moved out already but I could not exist without constant criticism
u/Atausiq2 — 17 days ago