She’s already talking to other guys
We dated 2 years and it was quite toxic, but we did love each other. Met at 21 and 19, and it was both our first relationship. We argued so often due to incompatibilities and broke up for a couple days at a time every now and then and it was just rough on both of us.
10 days ago we broke up because of a big argument officially and she said she needed to block me on everything so that she wouldn’t contact me. I broke it 3 days in but she was so indifferent and stern and calm that there was no chance, and we are done. I understood because we were so toxic but part of me has been working on killing that hope because of course it’s not that easy.
Anyways, this guy would text her pretty often when she posted photos on her ig story trying to hit her up. She ended up unfollowing him for me and said she doesn’t want random dudes hitting on her. I folded and made a throw away account to check and she’s following him now. For what other reason would she follow him besides to start talking to him when all he did was hit on her during our relationship? It’s just crazy to me because 2 days in I heard she posted a provocative photo and maybe it started then. It just hurts knowing she added this guy back again likely for validation or to start talking to him when I’ve been trying to heal in a healthy way.
I was definitely the bigger part of the issue of the relationship, I was horrible, but we both had our issues. This just feels so wrong and especially with how she didn’t seem like the type at all to talk to men this quick like this?
Edit: I know it was unhealthy to do all this. If anything, it didn’t tell me I do infact need to move on and there’s no hope we are ever working out again