Hello everybody I’m posting from a burner account for privacy reasons
So I’m visiting my partners family at the moment with our 5 month old. It’s her first time visiting them as we live out of the country
They want to take her to Disneyland without us (my partner and I) but I’ve told them that I was hoping that my daughter and I could experience our first Disney trip together next time we come (she will be 1 next time) (I’ve never been to Disneyland either as I live half way across the world)
I honestly don’t feel comfortable leaving my baby with anyone for more than a couple of hours especially not for an entire day
Add on: they never offer to spend the weekend with her or anything they only ever bring their teenage daughter. So it was out of the blue
Will I be the a\*\*hole if I don’t let them take her?
Edit: I feel like I should add that they have already bought their tickets to go. My partner and I aren’t going as it’s not in our budget this time, I’ll also add updates as they come
UPDATE: I want to thank everyone who commented I read every single one, I was just so unsure and felt mean not letting them take her but you guys assured me that I’m not in the wrong
I spoke with my partner and I told him how I felt and brought up some concerns that you guys had said. He is going to talk to his parents about it when they return home.
UPDATE 2: my partner spoke to his parents and his mum was on our side and totally agreed with us, he dad is upset with us and keeps asking why I’m so worried about germs when we have taken her on public transportation and to a restaurant.