u/AssociationEmpty2363

I completed one year of university after experiencing parent loss!

I am proud of myself. My dad passed away just a few days before my fall 2025 semester. I didn’t take any gap semester, or any break.

I went straight into and it gosh it was HARD it still is!! I ended the semester with 2 As and 2 Bs! I’m proud of myself. Professors and the advisors were telling me to quit school and drop their classes because they were worried I’d fail their classes (my first exams didn’t go well). But I did my hardest and improved. This winter semester, I got one C but oh well! I was working and grieving + being a full time student.

I did research with my university, I also landed a co-op which has now transitioned to a summer internship. Yay! Helps me have money to help my mom out after dad passed.

I’m now going into my last semester of school in the fall. I can’t believe my abilities and how much I’ve been through and how I actually did all of it.

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u/AssociationEmpty2363 — 5 hours ago

My family is trapping me and I’m not allowed to get married

I come from a conservative household, where getting married in early 20s is normal.

My dad passed away suddenly a couple months ago and I have and older brother but my mom and him are forcing me to be the breadwinner - even though I’m the youngest.

They’re threatening that if I don’t get a full time job after I graduate in December of this year, that they’re gonna have to sell the house and all this crap.

I’ve been so so lonely I’ve never dated because parents didn’t allow it. I’m 22 now. I’m about to graduate and of course since I come from a religious background I asked my mom if I could start looking for a suitable guy or whatever - SHE WONT LET ME! I’m not allowed because she wants me to start working and paying off the house.

Does anyone have advice?? Literally help me. I don’t want to date for fun I want to actually get married and be cared for. I’m so fucking burnt out and they won’t let me do shit. If I do, then they look down on me and yell.

Also, not to be TMI but I’m older now and my desires and needs have increased by a tenfold. I’m expected to be a virgin until marriage but holy shit I’m 22 and have needs?!!! Fuck my life like actually.

Someone please give advice I don’t know what to do

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u/AssociationEmpty2363 — 4 days ago
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As a girl, I know this will sound terrible. But when I get married I don’t want to work I’m so so over it. I can’t wait until InshaAllah I just find the one and he provides for me.

I’ve stretched myself so thin by working all throughout high school and college and now post grad. I’m just over it. I’m over working in corporate too, I hate being around a bunch of men and having to do all these handshakes and do so much just to be acknowledged by them.

Honestly right now I just feel like I’m trying to cater towards men - and this is a normal thing for corporate trust me. You have to dress a certain way, gotta wear some makeup, you like HAVE to do handshakes and all this stupid networking. I don’t want to do this anymore I want my future husband to take care of that stuff.

Just make dua he comes to me soon guys. I’m getting so burnt out mentally and physically.

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u/AssociationEmpty2363 — 7 days ago

Student program

Student program employees please share your experiences, I want to know how people feel about it. I don’t have too much contact with many others so it’d be nice to know how people are doing in their roles, and any feelings regarding the role itself.

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u/AssociationEmpty2363 — 7 days ago

Parking

Can someone please tell me where to park? I’m a summer intern and I don’t have Stellantis vehicle. I don’t want to get a ticket and I don’t really know how the parking works

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u/AssociationEmpty2363 — 7 days ago

So all, I’m doing an internship.

I’ve recently started my role in the last couple of weeks but everything is really REALLY unorganized. It’s honestly to the point where I just want to end the internship early.

I got hired on as a remote worker and I know the 5 days RTO applies to everyone but I don’t even have a car. They knew this, and it was fine for them until now it’s not for some reason.

I’m just honestly getting irritated, there’s a lot more but it’s been a hot mess and I don’t even know why I’m working here other than for money.

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u/AssociationEmpty2363 — 13 days ago