Would you back off or slow it down
So my guy friend and i whom we are both physically attracted to each other have great chemistry and share some of life’s values with in the beginning the feelings were so strong and intense we eventually became intimate after 4 weeks so after that we had stop connecting as much getting to know each other . We both talked about our intentions of marriage more kids and having a future unfortunately he’s a busy person right now working 2 jobs .
I found that our squeeze in times were not intentional and I started to overthink we are not getting to know each other anymore ANYWHO we had a huge fuss he mainly got heated I stayed calmed I did do something childish so I gave him space . So I told myself as much as I like him I standing strong on nomore sex and strictly focused on slow building as we continue to know each other literally 2 days later he called me stating as much as he love being sexual if that means taking sex off the table to continue getting to know each other he doesn’t mind , he said he agree things became to intense to quickly and that we need dial it back and do things the slow pace way , his intentions still remain the same but he knows where he at right now he has to get himself together I truly agreed and respected that decision
However I am a little worried it kinda of was the end . Didn’t feel like it but I know what giving space does although the mentioned we can still hang out and talk just not exclusively like that .
I personally don’t wanna reach out because it was his full decision to do this idk what yall think ?