Im going to explain a little about me, what ive tried, and what i need to do next.
trying to keep it simple - major PIED (my whole life… still virgin bc of it) even though i didnt feel like I was consuming an unhealthy amount of porn. started when i was 11-12 tho.. before I had a real romantic experience. Have been unable to perform when the time comes despite having many chances. Im healthy active and not bad looking. always have wondered why this is happening to me.
Would try to consult with doctors but it always seamed their opinions were not helpful - its in your head etc (ive had all the tests). I could never find anything to help/fix the problem. I realized towards end of college that its most likely bc of how ive become only comfortable pleasuring myself and my body/mind doesnt “work” when im trying with a girl.
I finally found forums of other people with same circumstances and theirs posts of how they solved it. Doing hard mode - ive gone many spurts of no fap only in hopes it might fix my issue. Now that ive seen legit posts from people and researched hard mode extensively… I am way more hopeful than ever.
Posting this for my own accountability and maybe to give optimism to someone else similar to me.
Feel free to ask me questions and what not . Thanks for coming to my ted talk