u/Asleep-War-7258

My social life sucks. I don't have that many friends. I have some of them but they are shit . They always call me for money and don't care about me that much . So I have started distancing myself from the group. They are very extroverted as well. Like they will just randomly decide to climb a mountain or go on unknown trails and get lost . They like these kind of activities. I don't . That is why I am not able to fit in the group as well. I am a big introvert. Simply just roaming around and talking to them for about 1 hour is enough for me . It's just having friends to talk to each day and roaming with them is enough for me .

I am focusing on my studies so I tend to go out rarely . It is also one of the reasons that they have stopped calling me when they go out together ( well ..they roam everyday) . I was the first one to start distancing myself away from them. They don't respect boundaries at all . I get the made the most fun of in the group . I have confronted them about it but they take it as a joke .

Also if I go out with them they tend to make me spend more as I have more money. 9 out of 10 times they call is always about lending them money . It is always small amounts but they never return it . Heck they don't even consider it a lending . They just request it .. almost like that they demand it . That is why i have stopped picking up their calls .

So I short they are shit but they are the only friends I have and i have started distancing myself away from them which has made myself social life miserable.

I want to make my social life better . What should I do . There aren't many people of my age group in my area. I live in a small town.

Hey I have purchased the pw batch for class 12 . The Thing is my school is insane . They are teaching the syllabus backwards.

Accountancy - book 3 financial statements analysis.

Bst- book 2 and form the last chapter as well ...Consumer Protection

I don't know what to do . Whether I should follow pw or not because they are teaching the right way . I was still studying form pw because I thought that it will better as my school teacher are pretty bad ( they are new and don't have a shred of experience) . But our school released the date sheet for periodic test 1 which is in 18 may. I need to learn everything because pw has not teached those chapters yet .

I don't have the time to watch old lecture as there are a lot of them . My only option is to watch one shot videos on youtube.

My question is should I care for my periodic tests or just leave them? . Because I am afraid my 12 boards will go bad if I follow the school. As the teachers are shit and the syllabus is being taught backwards anyways.

Should I follow my school or completely follow pw and stop caring about my periodic tests marks?

My friends always ask me for money whenever they need it . I am the richest in the group..that doesn't mean that I will give money away without thinking. Heck I don't even spend more money than them ...I spend like half of what they spend in a month . I rarely go out with them now because if I do they guilt me to pay for their expenses. They even call me whenever they feel like it. It usually goes like this "Hey we are in this restaurant and we need like 300 rupees more ..so can you give us like 200 and we will ask the rest from someone else" and I say no . But they guilt trap me by saying that they will pay me back and that I should help them as we are like "brothers". They never pay back . They even call for little expenses. Like for ₹20 recharge or for ₹50 because they decided to go out toe at somewhere at a street stall...I don't get it ..why would you go to someplace when you don't have any money.

This constant request for money has made me stay at home and avoid them ..I feel lonely because I stay at home all day . They are the only friends I have . I even stopped picking up their calls .

What should I do ?

And before if someone says that I should just tell them that I am not comfortable with spending money ....They do spend if they have money and do pay for others. But they do that rarely as they always say that they are broke ( They are not broke . They just don't bring any cash with them , whenever we go out together.) And I use Google pay ..so I always have money with me . So I have to spend more when I go out with them . They just bring some cash with them and say that that is all they have . Me Using Google pay gives them the convenience of asking for money whenever they feel like it .

When I say that they should spend more money they just show me that they have brought x amount of cash and are willing to spend it all. ( The amount is usually 50-60 ) . They use upi as well and when I question them about being broken they show me their empty bank account.