u/Asleep-Pair5694

Hey everyone, I’m completely new to findom, just trying to understand how people actually get started here.

I kinda stumbled into it by accident—someone introduced me to it a while ago and he used to pay me for cute selfies lol (nothing explicit, literally just selfies). It was fun, easy, and definitely got me curious.

Now I’m interested in exploring it properly, but I honestly have no clue how it works with other subs here or internationally. Is it mostly tributes, paying for attention/texting, pics, tasks, wishlists, etc.?
And how do you find genuine subs while avoiding scammers/time wasters?

I’m more of a soft/cute vibe than an intense domme personality (for now anyway 😅), so would love advice from anyone who started similar.

Any beginner tips—especially from other Aussies—would be super appreciated 🖤

I’m curious how women feel about this, especially when both people are adults and in different life stages.