u/Asleep-Conclusion710

I don’t understand the comparison to rapists and murderers though, like if I save my virginity then I’m a rapist, so alternatively I need to let some woman rape me so that I’m not a rapist. Makes my head hurt.

Why is it frowned upon when non virgin men pressure virgin women into sex but not really frowned upon when non virgin women pressure virgin men into having sex, who’s in the wrong here?