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I’ve been feeling pretty insecure about my cellulite and pudgy looking stomach (pics are in the morning) especially since I’m 5’9 and like 165-175 pounds. Not sure if I’m Am I chubby or curvy or skinny fat or fat. how much weight should I lose?
We started dating like a couple of months ago and I’m moving away soon. He’s gotten a little bit more distant as it’s approaching. I’ve never dated anyone before and like literally only had experience with women. He hasn’t had much experience either and hasn’t dated anyone past middle school. Before him had a long string of embarrassing unrequited feelings, till I met him.
He’s the sweetest guy ever, was very patient with me not being comfortable doing sexual things for a while and respecting that I want to wait till marriage for like MF sex. Literally always covers me ( he has a job tho I don’t but I feel guilty sometimes ), tells me I’m beautiful like every hour we’re together lmao, wanted me to meet his parents (he lives with them) like a couple of weeks in, tells me he loves spending time with me, willingly to thrift with me even tho he hates shopping, hasn’t cut his hair since we met just cuz I was like I love long hair, loves giving me massages and tried to buy me a massage gun because my muscles were tight…
But he hasn’t said the words. Also sometimes I feel like I want to talk to him more than him me like even though I’m hellla busy and he has more free time than me like I call him a lot more or text more often. He says he’s not much of a texter and he is pretty introverted but he does read his texts often so how come he sometimes will take like 8 hours to get back to me? Also I have adhd (working on it) and sometimes jump from topic to topic which he gets a little annoyed by. And really bad at being on time (I’m better now like will let him up) / prioritizing tasks (like cleaning before he gets here not when he arrives) which was a big issue. That makes me wonder if he actually likes me sometimes. I know I sound ridiculous for worrying especially since I was the one adamant on like ending things when I leave since the beginning mainly because of religious incompatibilities (I’m Christian and he’s ex catholic) his reaction to faith is quite negative even though he said in the beginning he was open to it ***. But I wonder why he hasn’t said it?
***(not trying to convert him, I mostly have agnostic friends so I thought it might be fine but just would like someone on a similarish wavelength in that regard and like doesn’t feel like they’re holding back judgement when I mention how scripture helps me or informs how I determine the “right”thing to do in some instances). Anyways