My brother in law has never been overly touchy with me. He will do kisses on the cheek for greeting and hugs, but that's it. I have never felt uncomfortable with him before.
Today, twice, he touched my waist while walking by me. The first time, he placed his hand right at the curve of my waist. It startled me but I didnt react. The second time, he placed his land lower where my waist and hip meet. Again, startled, but he walked away before I processed it. Neither was a passing brush or a harsh grab, they were full, firm, hand placement.
We were not in a crowd or drinking, this was middle of the day, sober, walking past me in my open driveway.
Idk it felt weird because the only person who touches my body like that is my husband and it felt intimate. I have known him for a decade, so we are very familiar. But it felt weird. AIO?
Tldr: brother in law suddenly being more handsy than usual and it weirded me out, but Idk if I am overthinking and it was innocent?