For a little bit of background I (25f) have been friends with this girl (24f) since 11th grade in highschool. We’ve worked together for years, I was in her wedding (not as a bridesmaid but as help), and I’ve dog sitted for her on more than a couple occasions.
It’s never been a secret that she is very in tune with religion and that I am not. Early in the friendship She used to send me religious tiktoks constantly and I had to ask for her to stop: I said it kindly stating that she should send them to someone who would better receive them. She stopped sending them so I left it at that.
Now, In the past I’ve gone back and forth between dating men and women. At one point after dating women exclusively for quite some time I started to date men again. When I told her I was going on a date with a man she responded with “I’m so happy, I don’t know how to say it other than this feels right” 🫤.
2 months ago I eloped with my now wife. In planning the ceremony for this summer I invited my friend and her husband. At the time I didn’t think anything of it but as of this morning I saw a tiktok she reposted And commented on. The post she reposted starts by saying “hi my name is Jess, I was openly gay for 15 years. I think being gay is a colossal waste of your life and a colossal waste of your time.”
The post goes on to talk about how this (formerly) gay man has turned to a life of god and is no longer gay. Her comment is supportive of him saying his story is very important and inspiring. None of this aligns with my very clear very gay view on life.
Our wedding is meant to be a place for me and my wife to celebrate with friends and family who support us. Unfortunate I’ve already sent out the invites. So, should I uninvited them to my gay wedding knowing they don’t support it? And if I do, how do I go about uninviting them without causing too much drama? Thank you all in advance for the advice and sticking around for the long story 😅