(30M) Recently came to terms with not being gay, and very much still being sexually attracted to women.
Here’s the problem;
I’ve found I’m far more interested in women than men, but I can’t pull women. I have no idea why. I wouldn’t consider myself ugly (not Ryan gosling, either.)
I’ve had ZERO problems pulling men. If I’m in a public setting, I’m far more likely to get hit on by men than women. I’m on the shorter side (5’7”) and told this is probably the reason I don’t stand a chance with women.
From everyone I talk to, it sounds like I just need to go out to bars or public places and get rejected a bunch of times so my confidence goes up, but I also know men suck and as a result women don’t want to be approached by single men.
Anyone here have it figured out and can help a bro out?