u/Arrrrrrrrrrrrriiiiba

I've noticed my partner goes through my phone when Im asleep, and through my Ipad when I'm not home.
We have open phone policy so he can ask me to hand my phone anytime, and I can do the same. There's no need to do it in secret. So Im getting suspicious. We had two D days. Last one was 1,5years ago. I found out when going through his things. He was really hurt by "invasion of his privacy" and I was hurt by what Ive found. Since then I felt fairly secure. Or maybe I just thought there's no point of checking since he'll just hide it better (he's wayyy more tech savvy than I am) I m pretty hurt right now. I don't care if someone reads my diary or checks my history, but why hide it. He acts the same which makes me even more uneasy