u/AromaticGarlic5285

I am a queer woman and last month I went to my sister’s (also) queer wedding. I was very happy for her and her wife, but during the ceremony I kept thinking about how we as a queer community should try to deconstruct weddings as a form of contract between two straight people. I mean, should we reconsider a father (a man) giving away his daughter to another not man? Should we destroy the wedding as a form of contract and try to rebuild another type of ceremony?

I don’t know if this topic is already emerged, I tried looking for it, but didn’t find any.

If there’s anyone who has experienced a new form of wedding/breaking heteronormative traditions I would be thrilled to hear about that