u/Aromatic-Hippo9624

▲ 7 r/WhatToDo+1 crossposts

Friend not responding amidst vacation planning

My friend and I have decided to go on a vacation together and we’re planning it a bit on Tuesday, with the last thing me saying is confirming the dates. She has not responded yet and I’m lowkey stressing like should I be planning more or what. I’m not sure what she expects. Should I reach out again or wait for her response?

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u/Aromatic-Hippo9624 — 9 hours ago

Declined to give my mom money with Mother’s Day coming up

So some context my mom went out on a lake with her toxic ex boyfriend (both are abusive to each other idk what’s wrong with them) and she ended up dropping her phone, wallet, and keys in the lake almost drowning herself. A week later she calls me saying how good I am with money and that her ex hasn’t been paid yet and that she “needs” me to give them $50 for cigarettes and liquor. She has come to me before for money but this time just ticked me off because she doesn’t call or text me for anything other than money, so I told her no and that she needs to stop coming to me for this. She gets upset saying that she’s never asked me for money before hah and hung up on me.

I don’t want a bad relationship with my mom but it’s extremely frustrating and degrading that all I am to her is a way to get money. With Mother’s Day coming up, I do want to visit her and maybe get her something, but I feel like she doesn’t even want me around if I’m not going to give her what she wants. I guess this was just a rant but I’m open to any advice…..

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u/Aromatic-Hippo9624 — 7 days ago
▲ 2 r/work

I have been sick since Thursday night, just very stuffy, head ache, spinning, body aches, sore throat, cough all of it. I took sick leave Friday, spent the weekend feeling shitty and Monday worked from home because of my cough.

I’m def coughing less and feel better so I came in today, took shit ton of cough syrup but I still am coughing maybe every 10 minutes.

We all have our own cubes in the suite we are in and it’s not very loud in here, but should I just go home? 😭 I don’t want to be annoying and coughing but I also don’t want to ask my manager to work from home the rest of the day I’m already here…….

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u/Aromatic-Hippo9624 — 17 days ago

So I do not recommend getting sick right before your period starts because I am currently coughing up so much phlegm and mucus, I’m at the point where I sound like a velociraptor and nothing is coming out anymore but I just coughed so hard I queefed a bubble out. That was definitely a first.

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u/Aromatic-Hippo9624 — 17 days ago
▲ 4 r/ElPaso

So I will be in El Paso from Austin this weekend and forecast says a high of 65 on Saturday and 76 on Sunday.

Is this reliable or does El Paso change drastically like in Austin? We literally get hail one day and then blistering and humid heat the next so I’m very accustomed to crazy temp/weather changes.

I plan on being outside most of the day both days so should I pack a jacket for Saturday or just deal with the temp?

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u/Aromatic-Hippo9624 — 18 days ago