Am i the problem!?
My wife (27)and i (27) have been together for 10 years married 8 for the first 3 years sex life was alright at least 3 times a week then we had our first kid and things changed which i expected it too like maybe once a week then 7 months later we had a miscarriage and i completely stepped back from sex until she was ready for about 5 months then it was once or twice then we found out we were expecting our 2nd child and things definitely weren’t the same after the miscarriage but got better for about a year but the last 4.5 years I’ve gone months at a time no sex we’ve discussed it she says she will try i try to put her in the mood (doesn’t work) i try putting myself out there too her nothing not sure if im unattractive to her or what im 6,4 230 lbs 7 inches (not the greatest) and im a great husband always there for her very caring she wants or needs for nothing and shes known when we got together im a freaky guy absolutely love sex and i love to please her im lost!?!?!?
Tl;dr sex life has gone way down not sure if im the problem or what