My partner and I are both 34, lesbians, and have been together for 11 years. The other night we tried piss play for the first time, and honestly I was way more into it than I expected to be. She said she enjoyed it too, and it ended up feeling surprisingly intimate and exciting for both of us.
For context, while we’re not in a strict Dom/sub relationship, she definitely leans more into a dominant/service top role naturally, and I tend to lean more submissive. So in some ways the dynamic kind of made sense for us once it happened.
One thing that’s also been in the back of my mind is that we were both a little high when it happened. We both fully consented and were into it in the moment, but I do sometimes wonder if that changed the dynamic or lowered the mental barrier to trying something that far outside our usual experimenting.
We actually did talk about it afterward while completely sober, and she told me she genuinely enjoyed it, which helped. But for some reason I still can’t fully get it out of my head that maybe I was more into it than she was or that she may have just been enjoying the moment because I was into it. It’s probably because this feels so outside our normal comfort zone that it’s hard for me to read confidently.
At the same time, I’d genuinely love to see it stay in the rotation if she’s into it too.
For people who are into this kind of play — did it become a regular thing right away for you, or did it take time before it came back up again? And has anyone else experienced trying something new while high and then wondering afterward whether it reflected a real interest or just lowered inhibitions?