u/Argentarius1

I mean "I'm not angry, I'm just disappointed" ? Really? That's low Renoir...

Using the term unironically, not noticing that it has become a term of abuse, and not realizing that it is immoral and deranged to apply a framework that was applied mainly to violent criminals towards little boys in school is a sign of a plainly untrustworthy person and you don't want them to learn to disguise themselves by not saying the term.