u/ArcaneLadie

AIO? grandma won’t speak to me bc i got a tattoo

AIO? grandma won’t speak to me bc i got a tattoo

I (18F) got my first tattoo yesterday in memory of my cat who passed a few days ago. his death genuinely destroyed me, and this is the one thing i decided to get so as to not ever forget everything he had done for me. she loves her cat, but animals don’t really mean much to her, and she also hates tattoos. she’s extremely christian, and i have always been her “golden child”. i love her dearly, and my dad told her the night that i got the tattoo (probably to upset her or make her mad at me) and now she refuses to speak to me. my cousin has multiple tattoos and she hates it, but she still talks to her. i just think it’s not fair, since this is to remember someone i loved dearly, and it’s quite small. she also gets her eyebrows tattooed on, so the hypocrisy is killing me.

u/ArcaneLadie — 1 day ago

advice needed: i need some ideas/help is anyone’s willing

this is my baby. he passed away yesterday and i want to dedicate my first tattoo to him. all of the cat tattoos i’ve seen for cat memorials (orange especially) have been a little tacky, so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas or designs that are minimalistic/small. i was thinking smth like his forehead markings or the like. thank you all so much. (i want a sleeve but i haven’t been 18 for too awful long)

u/ArcaneLadie — 2 days ago