Seeking advice in regards of past relationship
I (NB27) had a tough breakup last year, with the main reason being that the last time that I saw my situationship, he only would see me if I drank with him, even tough I was in antibiotics and struggles with an alchoolic past, however, I ended caving in. During our date, he ended up trying to remove my underpants a few times and masturbate me, even tough I said before invinting him that I did not want to have any sexual interaction, and during our date as well. Luckly, he eventually stopped trying.
I tried to talk to him a few times about it, mainly because at this point I had formed a trauma bond and didn't want to loose the relationship as a whole, but he quite dismissive, said that I was overreacting and similar things.
This week, in my follow recommendations on instagram, it started to show a profile quite frenquently and I decided to see what it was, I saw that in her bio it had the handle for my ex situationship instagram. I messaged her saying that our breakup was quite bad, and I was available to explain my side of the story and if something weird was happening in their relationship as well, without giving any details of what happened. She hasn't answered yet.
However, now I am questioning if it would make more sense to send another message detailing it, since it took me quite some time to figure out how serious it was and how it was affecting me. Would you like to know if your current boyfriend had this history? How would you prefer to receive this news? Or should I just wait for her to answer?