Hello, I have had the same job for about 3 years now and I started working part-time elsewhere as my original job is technically a independent contractor position. My boss of the main job is now demanding that I quit my part-time and claims that my contract states I work for her full time (but it also says I don't work weekends or past 17:00 which I often do for no overtime pay).
She made me apologise to her for a scheduling conflict that wasn't a necessary response as the event she wants me to assist with I am not even attending with her. She wants me to just be on call to drop everything at the last minute to help her should she want it. She also has no boundaries with my afterhours or weekends and never apologises. I feel like a child's toy that isn't allowed to be shared with anyone else.
Does anyone have experience with coercive control in the workplace? (Ps there is no union or HR for my field). I know she gaslights me but I don't know if this entitlement to all my time is coercive control or not?
Any advice would be appreciated and please don't be nasty (I've had some really meanspirited replies in groups in the past).