My bf gave me his IG account and it was alright until I checked his messages, with his permission. He says "Hola mi amor" and "I just miss you" after that and I see that the reels they send are quite sweet and also call each other as bestfriends. I asked him "isn't mi amor intimate and romantic?" He said "Sigh. Whatever u think"
Am I just being insecure? If I am, what is the line between friendly words for friends or sweet romantic words?? What is the definition of mi amor? Isn't it my love? Sorry Reddit if I'm being crazy
Update: I kept on reading and it was like he was closer to other girls more than me. Me and him have been dating for quite a while now so I was so broken hearted when I saw so many messages like these. They always refer to each other as bestfriends but the messages are so sweet such as "I love you" and "I'll miss you. Don't go."
And most of my friends are girls. But when I have a guy friend, I make sure that he's comfortable with it and I don't get defensive UNLESS I have done nothing wrong. I know that platonic friendships can appear with opposite genders but **I** don't say I love you to my guy friends. ONLY my girl friends. But every single time, he gets so angry at me meanwhile he's doing this. It just feels so hypocritical...