u/Appropriate_Pair_769

We are older and slower. We have a neighbor that visits daily and sometimes several times daily as much as 4 times in one day . If we don't answer the garage sensor immediately he will go to front door activating a sensor and will ring doorbell and he has to actually basically run ( i believe) and go back to garage. I open front door no one there . He has actually knocked on our door like the police at times.

Yesterday I lost my temper and said rather roughly

"Look We are old give us time" His excuse was checking on y'all. We can text pretty dang good so that would/could/ should be a good way for proof of life as well. I might be in the backyard and have to stop what I'm doing.

The hubs said I was overreacting so AITAH?

I feed them in the front yard only. Yesterday evening one crow glided down onto our roof at gutter level and just sat there and didn't make a sound or flap its wings. When the hubs reached for his phone it flew away. We were sitting on the back porch.

I'm hoping that was a positive interaction.