u/Appropriate_Drag_106

I am a late bloomer, 37 and have always been curious about trying being with a man and seeing if I like it. I am not really out yet so prefer to remain discreet.

I recently downloaded Grindr and everyone I have talked to is aggressive. Wanting sex right away or demanding pictures.

Is there a better way to go about finding someone to who will be willing to take things slow? Am I doing something wrong or is there a better way to handle it?