How do I (F21) leave my boyfriend (M30) safely?
I meet my boyfriend on 2024 on Tinder. We talked for 2 month's when we were gonna meet after that long testing time I found out he had a girlfriend. I leaved him in that moment. 3 month's ayer after he came back and he had broken up with that girl that was a 2 week relationship. We started to talk and everything was fine friendly. And one day he called me and since that night we called every night for the last year. We argue all the time cause he has many issues, anorexia, violence, screams, anxiety, cheating....
Still I couldn't break up cause I was trying to fix him. Then one day he said sexual comments at a picture of me AS A KID. And I realised he was BAD. he apologiezed after I gave him a lot of warnings and talks. and I taught I fixed him...
Next week epstein files get released and he starts to get obsessed with his punishment what I taught was fine but then he turned a redpilled andrew tate antisemtic neo nazi.
Now I fear him.
He has grabbed me hard, stole me money, screams daily. I have no support system and I dont know what to do.
I wish ai could add screenshot from the last week only. You cant imagine the horrific things he send me. I am always trying to make him calm down and then he acts nice so that confuses me after the screams.
He even accused me of being Mossad just cause I had a childhood friend who was forced to go to israel and be a soldier.
Basically he knows my great great great great grandma was jew and now says he needs to kill anyone with 1% of blood jew. is he saying he wants to kill me no? Plus I have nothing to do with this. I'm Latina, very very very mixed, he says cause I'm white skined i am not latina, (my dad is darker tone) he says my country needs violence and a dictator..and he is on my country right know and knows were I live and everything about me. I'm scared. what do I do? :(
I developed and autoimmune dissease because all the stress he caused me, im trained, depressed, alone and afraid. I have no one to help me. no one to even tell. how do I leave him safely? I'm too afraid to break up with him or say anything.