u/Appropriate-Ride1708

How do I know he’s not just using me

Hey dad so I have a friend who I fancy and he’s been flirting with me. But yesterday he made a joke about being in my bed.

Now I wasn’t offended and yes my response made that clear.

But I’m now thinking is he just after a physical thing.

It doesn’t make him a bad person if he is but I know I can’t do just physical. I’m a lover girl sadly and the last time I tried to do casual I got feelings and well it affected me for many years.

Is there anything I should look out for that will indicate if he’s just wanting to have a physical thing

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