u/Appropriate-Cry-8423

Approaching the time where buying a higher end watch is justified, would I have better luck getting what I desire with Cartier or Rolex not design wise but, wait list, watch snobbery, staff looking down on me like a peasant wise. I’ve been to some places and I might as well have been a ghost lol

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u/Appropriate-Cry-8423 — 10 days ago

Hey, (23 m), so I’ve been in a relationship with this woman for idk officially 2 months and we have great synergy. We’re both super stressed with work and she has goals of being a lawyer. She just took a job farther away (still commuting distance technically) which means she’d move closer and she’d have to take the train a while to be together or we’d meet halfway like an hour deep. I already see how I’m stifling her career driven goals. Talk from going to a school way far away to ones closer. Etc. that I can live with.

Then one day after radio silence I get a we shouldn’t be together text. And my heart plunged and in a way I can only discribe as self protection I felt all my emotion numb. We’ve met and talked since and I accept that it was her overthinking. but i literally can’t get that feeling to go away It’s like I’ve detached from the relationship and while I care for her it feels like my love is on safety.

I’ve had a phone breakup before in the darkest time of my life with surgery and whatnot and I know she didn’t mean it like that girl did. but the sparks gone, I care for her feelings but I really don’t want to make the mistake of just staying for her and burning myself again to keep someone warm.

It’s only gonna get more brutal with less time together. With law school. I’m leaning towards cutting it clean now before we get too deep into this. I’d appreciate any input that’s not my own head

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u/Appropriate-Cry-8423 — 15 days ago