Is it a good idea to live without convincing?
I don't really like the idea of convincing people, like, on anything.
It is childish, I know, but I don't like job interviews, I don't like dating, I don't like insisting to friends for plans, I don't like I have to demostrate why someone should love me, I don't like "selling" the best side of me, I don't like telling people what they should do or why they souldn't leave me. I don't like having to create an attractive profile on dating apps or job portals to get sex and money, even if those are things I want and struggle with.
Could it be I just want an easy life? A life where I don't have to "fight" for the things I want?
I feel like the right thing to do is to show yourself as you really are, but I can't seem to live in that way. Like, something inside of me doesn't "click" yet.
Does someone else feel like this?
Will I regret living like this in the future? Or will I feel good that didn't spend my life trying to appeal to other people values and copying their plans?