Should I stay or should I go ?
Found out about six years ago that my husband is a narcissist. To cut a long story short I want to divorce but at the same time haven’t saved up money / have a back up plan . Our kids have graduated from uni and the only reason I stayed in the marriage was to make sure they had a home .
I’m finding it difficult to continue , the environment is toxic . I work as a part time teacher and my work is being affected by the marriage . I’m afraid I won’t be able to provide for myself so tell myself at least there’s a roof above my head . I’m so confused , deep down I know that needs to be done and a part of me is still in denial . Your advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks !
Tl;dr
Staying or leaving a 27 year long marriage with a cheating , gaslighting spouse .