u/ApprehensiveSail8001

I am 40 years old woman, pregnant for the first time, i really wanted this child, i have been on and off with the father, he is a good man, we loved eachother very much at the beginning but later the differences between us diminshed slowly this love. During our breakups i dated other men, that didnt get anywhere. So time was passing... all my life i dreamt of being a mother so one night in a weak moment, i said ok lets make a baby and it actually worked, even though i thought it will take me months or IVF to get here. Now im happy that i will have a child but the problems in my relationship are still there.
Have any of you have stories with finding a more suitable partner after having 1 child?