AITJ for unfollowing my old friend and rejecting her wedding invite after she ghosted me for two years?
I had a close friend Maya in college. We were inseparable for years. After graduation, we stayed in touch for a while, but then she slowly stopped responding. No big fight, just... silence. She'd leave my messages on read. She'd cancel plans last minute. Eventually, I stopped trying.
Two years of nothing. Last month, I got a save the date in the mail. She's getting married. She also sent me a friend request on social media and a message saying "I know it's been a while, but I'd love for you to be there."
I didn't respond. I archived the message and ignored the request. My mom says I'm being petty and should just go. She says weddings are about celebrating love, not holding grudges.
But I feel like she only reached out because she wants a gift or to fill a seat. Not because she actually missed me.
AITJ for unfollowing her and saying no?