u/ApprehensiveArt7217

In the beginning of our relationship I’d come over and he’d always cuddle me but ever since I’ve been coming over every so often he’s been distant with cuddling now we just go to sleep with no intimacy, nothing and it hurts. I asked him why do you not cuddle me anymore, he replied with it’s always something with you, I can never please you you always have something to complain about, but I just want what we used to have… I just want my bf to show me that he loves me.. am I crazy to sit there turned away from him and cry while he ignores me. It keeps me up thinking about it and he just sleeps so peacefully not caring. How do I address this to him, would he even care?

It’s been 9 months and I ‘20F’ still refuse to give my man ‘22M’ head. I’m scared, I’ve never done it before and he’s my first everything. In the beginning he accepted it, but now it’s getting to the point where he ask me every now n then when will I finally be comfortable with doing it. I don’t know why I’m so scared to do it, I think it’s more of an uncomfortable thing. Or embarrassing. He has started to say whatever Ik you’ll never do it so don’t even say you will. Because sometimes I’m like I can do this but he’ll make me mad and I just don’t do it, but I’ll tell him I almost wanted to do it and after I tell him he gets upset and I can tell that he’s mad. I also don’t want to feel pressured into doing it I just want a nice romantic time to do it not forced.

I keep telling him eventually I’ll loosen up but.. Idk when that moment will come truly.. I can’t get over this fear.

My partner has NOT tried to force me to do anything

Edit: he cut off all intimacy with me and won’t even cuddle me before bed, I feel neglected. But I still want to stay for some reason..

I found this game that really excited me and I wanted to share it with my partner and possibly give it a try, he said yes, when I got all the materials I was describing to him all the materials I got in a excited tone, happy, I had told him I got my paper and I got my pen and I was gonna joke and be like Apple pen, as a joke excitedly, he says with a cold tone “ I don’t care” so I got quiet because it kinda hurt my feelings like he was dismissing my excitement, I said ok and rolled over on the bed, 5 mins later he says okay let’s play, I said no it’s fine, he says okay. I take a nap and he had the nerve to act upset with me?

2 hrs pass by, I ask him a long paragraph in text why he is upset if he hurt my feelings he then goes on to say he was joking and that I get too sensitive. But I kept trying to tell him to please acknowledge when I get upset or when something hurts my feelings. And when I tried explaining this to him he says he feels like he has to tread lightly when joking with me but it’s just the time and place that get me because I can easily take a very crazy joke but certain jokes hurt me.

Are my feelings valid?