u/Apprehensive-Use2467

Hi everyone! My husband and I are new to this lifestyle but non-monogamy is something we've been talking about for years. I had never heard of hotwifing until 2 days ago, so looking for more information about what this looks like in practice. So far, my husband has slept with one other woman and has taken another woman out on a date, with plans to see her again and possibly (if she's open to it, she knows our dynamic) have an intimate experience with her as well. We have yet to introduce a person(s) into our intimate lives, the experiences have been independent up until now but we are very interested in having a third and maybe a fourth person (couple) join us. I do feel like I get a lot of pleasure just from the experience of him seeing other people though, not necessarily watching him sleep with someone (haven't experienced that yet but open to it!) but just the whole ritual of helping him plan the date, get ready for it, and then the debrief afterward and the arousal and excitement that comes from it. Is that like hothusbanding?? I'm not sure that I want to go out and sleep with other men, but I do get a lot from knowing he is sleeping with other women, and the thought of having both men and/or women join us. I'm just here trying to figure out what my kinks are and looking for some shared experiences from other people! Thanks