Hello- I’m am looking for advice and would love some feedback.
My uncle passed away tbh I didn’t have a relationship with him and neither did my mom (it was her brother)
He wasn’t father of the year and my cousin made the decision a few years back to not speak with him -which I 10000% support
Our full family dynamic is weird we’re not all that close but I do really love this cousin and over the years tried to reach out every so often to tell her I’m thinking of her and swap life updates
All this to say when I found out my uncle passed away I immediately thought of her and how this probably is bringing up mixed emotions and how I’m thinking of her not because sadness that he passed away but because of all the feelings that might be surfacing because of it. Especially with people texting her condolences
Just looking for some advice on what I could text her- what would you want to hear ?