Ok I’m 21F and always considered myself ace. One time when I was 20, a guy was flirting with me via text and I was probably a bit turned on and then he sent a picture of himself (his face, nothing nasty) and I got super wet and was throbbing down below, that had never happened before. I was physically aroused but it’s not like I consciously wanted to have sex with him. That’s happened maybe twice since then. Ever since that interaction I sometimes think about sexual things, get horny, and masturbate regularly, but am still not too keen on having a guy inside of me (though I’m not necessarily opposed to physical things and outer course type stuff). Am I still ace? Am I grey ? Is what I experienced sexual attraction if I don’t want to have sex with these guys?
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