u/Apart-Reflection-459

Hi.

So I have a question about PinchMe and wanted to see if anyone can answer it. I have been on PinchMe for a while and I used to get good freebies. But now it’s dead. But I do get the text messages that say “Download (app/game) for the Mystery Box.” If I have already downloaded the app beforehand just bc I like the game or something, will deleting the app and redownloading it work for PinchMe? Will it read it as a new user and then I can get the mystery box?!

I hope my question makes sense. lol.

Thanks in advance!

(So I’m not sure where exactly to post this so if it’s not allowed I’m sorry.)

I, 36F, have experienced a lot of death starting at a young age. My first grandparent died when I was 8. My last grandparent passed away in 2018.

My dad passed away from a heart attack in September 2021. That was the hardest thing I had to endure in my life.

I had to put my dog down Dec 2023. He had cancer. That was unexpected and tore my heart in half.

Then my childhood friend overdosed in 2025 and I had to endure the trauma of seeing her purple and gray body (They found her facedown in the bathroom.) in a casket. It was heartbreaking.

This is where I need advice:

My great aunt ( sister of grandmother) was diagnosed with dementia about 12 years ago. She progressed quickly and stopped remembering everyone. She only knew her caretaker and daughter. When she stopped remembering me, I felt like she was gone. She is now on her deathbed. She stopped eating and lays in the fetal position. It’s just sad. She is expected to pass away tonight.

So her funeral is going to be in NJ and I know all of my family is going to be there. But I am just not mentally prepared to endure crying and caskets again. I don’t want to go. Would that be wrong?

Don’t get me wrong, I love my Aunt Millie. She was an amazing lady. She had a life that I envied. She owned bars when she was young. Drove around in a Mercedes with a gun in the glovebox lol. She retired and lived in a 55+ community in Vegas. She got to golf with tiger woods and she even met Obama. She was such a cool lady.

I just don’t wanna see her in a casket. I don’t want to remember her that way. I don’t want to sit around everyone crying and stuff. Is it unsympathetic of me not to go??

Thanks in advance for the advice.