we planned a week long trip together for months. split everything down the middle, agreed on the itinerary, seemed like we were on the same page about the whole thing.
the moment we got there she completely checked out of every plan we made. wanted to sleep in every morning when we had early tours booked. kept saying she'd pay me back for things and then conveniently forgetting. ordered food and drinks way outside our agreed budget and just assumed we were splitting it evenly.
the one that really got me was the sunrise tour we had both been excited about for months. i woke up at 3am, got ready, knocked on her door. she said she was too tired and to just go without her. i went alone, it was incredible, and she spent that morning sleeping and then complained for the rest of the trip that she missed it like it wasn't her own choice.
i didn't say anything the whole trip because i didn't want to ruin it. smiled through the whole thing and came home exhausted in a way that had nothing to do with the travel.
she's already asking about our next trip and i genuinely don't know how to tell her that i don't think i can do this again
WIBTA if i just told her the truth