Since we were in high school my man has gotten genuinely giddy when I get stern with him. Usually when he's picking on me and I finally lose it. Immediate smile across his face. It just makes me more mad because he's supposed to be taking me seriously and getting intimidated. It's only cute to a degree. Any explanations?
My labia and clitoral hood have always been on the bigger side but I’ve noticed that when I’m on my period they both shrink significantly then return back to normal once my period is over. Does everyone experience this?
I F19 started working as a DSP in the beginning of December and it started out great! The longer I’m here the harder time I’m having with the residents. One in particular, a man in his 30s with down syndrome loves to give me a hard time. It started with him just refusing to do any chores when he was assigned to me. This was manageable, I’d just ask one of my coworkers to get him started and then I’d take over. Now I’m working 3rd shift and he gets a shower around 5am and he’s been refusing to cooperate. Because the only other staff here sleeps at night it makes it hard for me to manage. I feel terrible when I have to wake him up.
For example, yesterday morning the resident went to the bathroom, assisted me to shower, and was seemingly in a great mood. When we were done with the shower he shut the water off but wouldn’t leave the shower. I did everything I could to get him ready while he was still in the shower but he was naked from the waist down and refused to move. He looked so cold and I could tell he was tired of standing but he wouldn’t budge. He stood there for at least 15 minutes, I didn’t give him any attention and even tried leaving the room for 5 minutes. The first time my coworker asked him to exit the shower he did.
He’s definitely stubborn with all the employees here, but I’m the only one he behaves this badly for. I’ve tried giving him more options, for example asking him if he’d like to sweep or mop when he’s not willing to do chores or if he’d like to wear blue or green shorts when he’s not cooperative in the bathroom.
I’ve never scolded him and I try to never tell him to do things or even really ask. I just suggest and try to be as patient and playful as I can.
When we have free time he’ll hold my hand, hug me, and say my name (he’s hardly verbal). So I’m really not sure where this came from.
Any advice welcome!!!!
I’m a DSP at a home with 6 adults with a verity of developmental disabilities. I’ve only had difficulty working with one of them- a man in his 30s with down syndrome. I’m a smaller 19 year old girl so I don’t like pushing my luck with him. He’s mostly nonverbal but will say my name, hang out with me, give hugs, kiss the top of my head, and follow me around the house.
For whatever reason he suddenly decided to stop cooperating with me completely. One of his chores is to take his clothing protector to the laundry room and his dishes to the sink after breakfast. When I’m in charge of the dining he refuses to leave his chair and will occasionally throw his full cups of milk and juice onto the floor. He of course has to clean it himself afterwards but he doesn’t seem to care and continues the behavior.
When any of my coworkers ask him to get up while he’s refusing he gets up the first time they ask. So frustrating.
This morning while giving him a shower he refused to exit the shower. I dried him off and put on his shirt but he wouldn’t get out so I could put on his pants. We had to stand there until 1st shift got there and of course, the first time my coworker asked him to exit the shower he did.
He was shivering and his feet were turning purple!! Experiencing actual discomfort in order to show him just how stubborn he can be lol.
Any advice welcome. I’m very patient with him (maybe too patient?) and I do my best to reason with him. While he’s being stubborn it seems less angry/annoyed and more mischievous/ornery.