u/Any_Philosophy_9865

For context, I ran away from home last year of my druggy abusive mother. She works at a bank, and obviously, people are much different behind closed doors, so nobody truly knows she's this way. Her coworkers despise me, my mother has always told them everything about me, and I mean everything, she's a very smart manipulator and cries to them nonstop about my absence.

I have 2 siblings that still live at her house, my greatest regret is not taking them with me. To keep the peace we had her attend the prom photo shoot this year since it was her weekend with my siblings. Her friend from the bank who's also a professional photographer was taking photos of us this year, she too plenty of photos of me specifically.

A couple of days later I see she posted them on Facebook, but she had clearly edited the photos to make me bigger and round (there was a lot of distortion around my body.) I couldn't let this slide as I already didn't like this banker anyways. She deleted the post before I got a screenshot but this is what I replied: "not the fattest banker in (my town) projecting her insecurities of her own body onto a teenage girl. It's giving, jealous, husband no longer is interested in sex, and mean girls if the only thing they did the entire movie was eat. I could make bacon out of you, remove this post, it's embarrassing. The editing is just as obvious as your rotund bowling ball shaped body."

I know it wasn't all needed, I could have left it at asking her to delete the post, but she's insulted me many times before this. Am I the asshole?

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u/Any_Philosophy_9865 — 9 days ago