solid relationship + attraction (33F and 40M) but little desire for sex
I’ve (33F) have been dating my partner (40M) for a year. We’ve been living together for a few months. We get along great, laugh, communicate… I guess really comfortable? All great things. But I find that I just don’t have desire for sex. I am attracted to him fully and get turned on thinking of him. We still have sex at least 1x per week but to me it almost feels like a check box vs a strong desire/ pull. When I get into bed, I just get cozy and want to sleep. My last long term relationship where i lived with my partner, we just completely stopped having sex. How can I make sure we don’t fall in the same boat, and make sure my desire and his stays up? I fear me being too domestic (cooking for him, handling stuff around the house) makes him lose desire for me overtime (since that is akin to motherly stuff?) He has voiced his notice of his sex drive going down due to work stress