I was on her phone and I she had a streak on Snapchat with a person I wasn’t familiar with. So I looked into the chat and there was a dick video saved and multiple of her in lingerie from way before we even started talking again. I brought it up to her and asked why she would have someone like this added still, she said she only snapped him for the streak. and she said she was sorry/would delete them and didn’t know it was a boundary for me because we didn’t talk about it. (We didn’t) but I just can’t stop feeling like that is a common respect thing for most people and I honestly want to believe her but it just seems way too over the top. How would you guys handle this?
For more context, everything else has been great. She is a way better person than I knew before, and there hasn’t been any other red flags other than this.