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My husband and I have been together for nearly a decade with 2 kids (5 and 7). In the first 2 years of our marriage it was very rocky but we were young and worked through it with marriage therapy. About 4 years ago a girl reached out and said he was messaging her one on one and they shared pornographic images. He apologized when I confronted him and went to therapy for about 4-6 weeks. I also gave him grace because I had just had a baby and he said that was his main argument to why he did it. Last week his phone was buzzing in the middle of the night and I looked through it. He has been messaging local (trans?) escorts in the area and doing live sessions with pornography websites for at least the past 2 years. He has also racked up over 2000 on a credit card I didn’t know about. When I spoke with him he only said sorry and offered counseling. Am I crazy here? I shared this with my best friend and I went back on the conversation today and he had deleted all the photos on my phone that I had sent to her. Seeking advice