u/Any_Bookkeeper_2220

Should my family surrender our dog

This post is very hard for me to make but I need advice. My mom is permanently disabled and unable to work due to a hemorrhagic stroke that happened three years ago. Before her stroke my parents had separated but my dad still chose to live with her to take care of her. My mom is now at a place where she is able to take care of herself and live alone so my parents want to part ways. This whole time they were living at a house together with my mom’s big coon hound. After my mom’s stroke, she is physically unable to walk her because of her weakness and partial blindness. I don’t live at home but I come by often to help walk her. I got accepted into a masters program far away and will be moving so I won’t be able to help anymore. My mom might have to also move into an apartment on her own which many don’t allow dogs of her size and it’s not like she’d be able to let her out into the backyard, and won’t be able to walk her outside. My dad doesn’t want to take the dog either as he has started seeing another woman who doesn’t want a dog. The dog has also been diagnosed with two mammary tumours recently that need to be surgically removed and the cost is extremely high and difficult to pay off especially since my mom is not able to work. Overall it seems like giving the dog a good quality of life is not possible given our family situation. I am trying to weight out all of the options and am feeling stuck. What do I do?

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u/Any_Bookkeeper_2220 — 5 days ago

Hello, I am coming here because I really need your help. I am creating this fundraiser for my mother, to help her dog Mia. In 2020 my mother worked as a nurse during the COVID pandemic, and decided to adopt Mia to help her through the extremely difficult time. In 2023, my mom was diagnosed with an Arterial Venous Malformation (AVM), in her brain for which she had to do surgery for. After her surgery my mother suffered a hemorrhagic stroke, leaving her with a permanent disability and the inability to work. Mia has been there for my mom through everything, and has been the reason my mother has been so strong. Just recently we noticed a lump on Mia’s belly and brought her in to the vet. The vet said she has a mammary tumour that is cancerous, and if she does not get it removed as soon as possible it can spread and grow, significantly decreasing her lifespan. She is only 6 years old and her and my mother deserve to have more time together. Due to my mom’s inability to work, it is extremely difficult to find the funding for Mia’s surgery. I am coming here to kindly ask for any donation no matter has small. If you came this far, I want to thank you for taking the time to read my mother’s and Mia’s story.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/please-help-save-my-mothers-support-dog?utm\\\_campaign=natman\\\_sharesheet\\\_dash&utm\\\_medium=customer&ts=1778178123&utm\\\_source=native\\\_options

u/Any_Bookkeeper_2220 — 7 days ago
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Please help save my mothers support dog

Hello, I am coming here because I really need your help. I am creating this fundraiser for my mother, to help her dog Mia. In 2020 my mother worked as a nurse during the COVID pandemic, and decided to adopt Mia to help her through the extremely difficult time. In 2023, my mom was diagnosed with an Arterial Venous Malformation (AVM), in her brain for which she had to do surgery for. After her surgery my mother suffered a hemorrhagic stroke, leaving her with a permanent disability and the inability to work. Mia has been there for my mom through everything, and has been the reason my mother has been so strong. Just recently we noticed a lump on Mia’s belly and brought her in to the vet. The vet said she has a mammary tumour that is cancerous, and if she does not get it removed as soon as possible it can spread and grow, significantly decreasing her lifespan. She is only 6 years old and her and my mother deserve to have more time together. Due to my mom’s inability to work, it is extremely difficult to find the funding for Mia’s surgery. I am coming here to kindly ask for any donation no matter has small. If you came this far, I want to thank you for taking the time to read my mother’s and Mia’s story.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/please-help-save-my-mothers-support-dog?utm\_campaign=natman\_sharesheet\_dash&utm\_medium=customer&ts=1778178123&utm\_source=native\_options

u/Any_Bookkeeper_2220 — 5 days ago