I suspect my gf is taking my clothes off well I sleep
I [18FTM] suspect my girlfriend [19F] might be taking my clothes off while I’m asleep. A few times now I’ve woken up missing a shirt or underwear when I know I went to sleep wearing them. I’m usually a very deep sleeper, but I’ve also been sexually assaulted in the past in a similar way, so I can’t tell if I’m being paranoid or if this is actually something I should be concerned about.
I briefly mentioned it to her once before, but she kind of brushed it off and I haven’t brought it up again since. Part of me is wondering if maybe I’m somehow taking them off in my sleep myself, but it’s starting to bother me more. It only happens when I am sleeping in the same bed as her. I don’t know how to bring it up without sounding accusatory over something that feels small, but it’s making me uncomfortable. How do I bring this up or ask her about this? Is this just me being paranoid?